We need to make more room for relationship grief. Took me a good 6 months plus to get over just a 2 month relationship last year. Also youre totally right, youre grieving two things! Also also (lol) - you being 'over it' doesnt automatically mean you have to talk to him. Thats extremely entitled on his part. You being over it can still mean never wanting to speak to him again because he lost any rights he has to you!
Very beautiful writing! Without knowing you and without trying sound like a knower of all things, things will get better if you work on loving yourself first.
Please look up this book, I think it could really help: "Gaslighting & Narcissistic Abuse Recovery"
Two things:
1. I'll always do the rescue mission no matter the distance
2. Your writing since the break up has been raw, fiery and deeply moving
We need to make more room for relationship grief. Took me a good 6 months plus to get over just a 2 month relationship last year. Also youre totally right, youre grieving two things! Also also (lol) - you being 'over it' doesnt automatically mean you have to talk to him. Thats extremely entitled on his part. You being over it can still mean never wanting to speak to him again because he lost any rights he has to you!
This was beautiful and so helpful Tiff - thank you x
Very beautiful writing! Without knowing you and without trying sound like a knower of all things, things will get better if you work on loving yourself first.
Please look up this book, I think it could really help: "Gaslighting & Narcissistic Abuse Recovery"
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Beautiful. Thanks for sharing and sending you love X