Such good advice!!! I'd also add: don't think of the first date as a date. It's a chemistry read. Like you say, the chatting should be kept to a minimum as a way to filter. The same goes for that first meeting - it's not a date, a pre-arranged opportunity to meet a fellow single person to see if you fancy them.
Thank you SO much - this was fascinating and really helpful. I met my ex at uni years ago and so have never tried the apps and have been terrified if truth be told. But hanging around cafes hoping that the guy opposite me might be single is not working! X
Such good advice!!! I'd also add: don't think of the first date as a date. It's a chemistry read. Like you say, the chatting should be kept to a minimum as a way to filter. The same goes for that first meeting - it's not a date, a pre-arranged opportunity to meet a fellow single person to see if you fancy them.
Thank you SO much - this was fascinating and really helpful. I met my ex at uni years ago and so have never tried the apps and have been terrified if truth be told. But hanging around cafes hoping that the guy opposite me might be single is not working! X
Love this! Super sound advice x