What Are You Looking For?

The dating question that makes my stomach curdle

Men on the Internet seem terribly scared that I’m going to kidnap them and force them into a relationship. Maybe it’s the latest dating trend, or it’s a young people thing or because they see on my dating profile that I’m 35, but there’s a recurring question that I get from people I’ve matched with and it makes my stomach curdle: ‘What are you looking f…