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When a friend of mine had a bike accident that put him in hospital, people kept asking me; “was he wearing a helmet?” Similarly, with an unplanned pregnancy; “did they use protection?” The real question people are asking in these scenarios is; “how can I make sure that doesn’t happen to me?”
We know it’s selfish, that’s why we only ask when the affected…