I Feel Shame For My Desires

Wisdom from my parents on having the courage to pursue what we want

My mother says a lot of wise things. Since my break-up, the list includes: “You and your ex simply weren’t on the same page,” and “It’s important to be clear about what you want: write it down.” She reminded me that there are other people out there who share my desire for a family and a life partner and said: “There’s no shame in wanting those things.” 

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