Fears about love

Whatever pain you’re holding on to, I’m writing this for you

My memoir, Totally Fine (and other lies I’ve told myself) is out in DAYS. In the intro, I write that:

It has taken me many years to be able to tell this story, just as it has taken me many years to understand that there is no right way to grieve and no right way to live. We must embrace our pasts, even if they make us feel icky inside, because they are …