Dear Tiff: I'm stuck

Why can't I apply focus to my romantic and work lives when I want to make a change?

Dear Tiff,

I’ve allowed things to get stagnant in some important areas of my life. I ended a big relationship last year and would like to start dating, but for some reason can’t get it together to make that happen. I’m glad I gave myself time to process the break up, and I’m pretty sure I’m now ready for some romance, if not a new relationship. But I pri…